Some of them were guys I knew actually friends of mine. Not sure if humor is the best way to express this maybe I should stop but at the same time not making jokes about it would be weird as that's kind of just how our personalities are. I am with you 100% on everything you said I am just wondering because I like your input you said everything for me! You guys get to screw whomever however many and walk around like its a badge of honor. Several promiscuous women have said to me that they could be faithful when married and I think that they would. but come on now. over 100 is just obvious, whether you see yourself as having a modern approach You are correct that you cant do anything about the man before you being bigger but I most certainly believe you can still be better. I'd like to believe the girls I'm seeking hold value to themselves and know what they are worth, unlike my current girlfirend sadly. Your honor, Ive been arrested for those rapes which occurred 4 years ago. understand where youre coming from, and just give you a chance? As long as you can be faithful to the person youre with, whatz the problem?? Women have a rep to protect and as a woman doing that knows shes gon have a name for herself so why do that in tha first place if you gon ne ashamed about tha number? Enter your info below and join my VIP list. No track record of long-term relationships, combined with promiscuous behaviour, is always a bad sign, regardless of philosophy. You can probably answer that. Not saying its right for a man to walk away, but there are women who dont even tell the presumptive father of their pregnancy status. A lot of women have transitioned out of the Hoe Stroll while others will lead you to believe that they havefor what reason? Shadow Hunter-Stay in Touch. I disagree with you. But it will be in the back of your mind. Those refusing to acknowledge a persons sexual past are really the ones insecure about it, not those who ask. It is the fact that you will hold this over someones head forever that I feel could use some rethinking. This. Far from it, but I definitely am not gonna freak out about the numbers game! I seem to be shunned by women when after the 3rd date I still havent tried to get into her pants. Having slept with others casually certainly doesn't mean that someone will cheat. And yes, I enjoy educating the ignorant, such as yourself, on such topics. The choices you make in life matter and have consequences. Not at all. Best recognize! whether or not she has a(n) std(s)) is very important concerning the number of partners that she's had but if a woman tells a man that she's slept with 3 men and neglects to add the 0 at the end of that, she's being dishonest and that violates the principle of another post that you made (4 keys to starting and maintaining a successful relationship) previously. Have you heard of Google? These women oftenhave a very nontraditional view of the way a woman should carry herself in a relationship. A study Sarah Mikach and Michael Bailey of Northwestern University looked at the correlation between a woman's sexual partners and . Stop bashing each other, and tearing each other down. We dont know how many partners a woman should have. Blanksie_11 you make excellent points and I do not disagree with you. I believe it is truly best. I am referencing a paper directly concerned with the subject, Premarital Sex, Premarital Cohabitation, and the Risk of Subsequent Marital Dissolution Among Women., If perhaps you had read my posts below from last year, where I referenced this study, you wouldnt have made the invalid assumption that I believe something is true because I say it is.. To those guys dating a girl that has been around you know your boys are all laughing at you behind your back. Either way thank you for allowing me to share . Youtube. We are all entitled to have standards and to make a judgment about whom we choose to spend our lives with. If any guy called me names like a whore or uses my past as a deal breaker Planned Parenthood business is booming. Instagram. She informed methat she had sex with over 30 men. Whats the point of man or woman sleeping with so many partners??? Saying that a woman should have a low number of partners is out of sync with reality. I never wanted her run through thats why i tackled her youngps shes 20 and im 20..and im a virgin. As it relates to this post I believe that a womans number of sexual partners does matter for a few reasons. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. You have a handful of female experience and all you do is wonder about her past. Im seeing this guy and hes super hesitant bc he doesnt know the exact # of people I have been with. . I just dont put it all in one article because it would make them to long to be honest. Its cute (from the human perspective) and very fairytale like to add such insertions that we should not judge, but that is very delusional and REALITY makes a great point of it every single day! I like how you caught yourself on that : ). I swear, idiots..youre just being selfish. You can try to explain Him out of existence all you want. Ironic that you accuse someone else of being too lazy to link you to a study that you can just look up yourself, but didnt, because you werewelltoo lazy. While media still shames yet sells women. Wow! Is she a hoe or as you said on a hoe stroll? I plan to discuss why this has happened in a future post. with.. I guess it really doesnt matter. Excellent point. You dont think thats extreme? I hole hearted believe both males and females can be whores. 1. The person asking or the person who has the power to say yes or no ? Choosing to have however many partners you want does not mean that you do not have self respect. For good or bad For some other context I am 20 and she is 19 and I got out of a 3 year relationship around last September and after that started on this self improvement/PUA stuff a few months ago as I felt lost in the single world but I have not had any results with it and it makes me feel like some stupid beta who's only trying to get into a relationship because a girl is showing interest in me but fuck man we really do click on a ridiculous level. Anything Unless you are interested in being swingers, your best bet would be to only get involved with someone who has a solid sense of morality. Doesnt make it right, but remember, thats the flip side of a double standard. People please keep in mind, God made Average for a reason. She says she has toned it down and has only been sleeping with one guy this year who she has had a fwb thing with for a bit but we're not at the point where I would feel it would come off as anything less than insecure and as if I was threatened if I asked her to stop with this guy but I will obviously ask what the deal is with that once thing get more serious with us as I think it's just getting to the point of possible exclusivity. I have recently become single after a twelve year marriage and it hard enough to find someone compatible in thinking,loyalty,honesty, etc, to worry about their past. Using the number of sexual partners as one proxy for how someone views sexuality, intimacy, and as insight into part of their value-system iscompletelyrational and reasonable. After my grandmother died things werent the same. The past is relevant. Im not emotionally detached, I was able to attach to my man and love only him and I am never bored. Awesome! Lets try this on for size: Yes, her past is hurtful and hard for us both. It doesnt really save more hearts and feelings, it just postpones the pain. What happens to the guy that took a chance on her got his emotions wrapped up in her only to have them stomped on? Plus you want someone who loves you for who you really are and you will never Hmm? To judge them is just wrong and unfair. But be careful with your in-person reaction to your significant other's confession. But the average man, when hes serious about a woman, does care. Its a reality of biology. Im 26 years old and have never given myself to anyone. If you cant provide a woman with certain things you will always leave the possibility of that relationship going in the wrong direction. No, my perceptions are no more divorced from reality than yours, or those of anyone else. Nobody wants to end up with the town whore who every guy has ridden. I confronted her about it and she responded the number was 5. So Stephan following your argument, if you would find a woman who 5-10 years ago had a gangbang and half of the town where you live had sex with her but now she is a very nice woman and has changed her values, you will embrace her and take her as your partner without having any problem or concern? of course aftewards they feel like trash, or are so cold that they lack feelings completely. No man grows up saying, I cant wait to find a nice slut to settle down and build a family with!!. early whether you are worth an investment (remember the biological urge If she has had just a single partner before me, it could be hard to find out whether she is still in love. You never know. Men are sure as hell trying to do it now! STDs are always a risk, but that usually comes up pretty early, and even if there is an STD involved if you really want to bang anyway, that's what condoms are for. So when they say save yourself for the right one remember the word ONE u can say girl see whats out there see what u like live life but remember u are not only keeping apart of that person u sleep with in you, you are also exposing that person to your future kids and shaming your future spouses bloodline stop trying to justify being a hoe. Women should NOT be judged different from Men, however it does matter more with a Woman then a Man, FACT. Part of that process takes proper communication. Doesnt mean a man will like it, but is it really worth letting go of a good thing because of a number. least. Am a runs girl last month but now a millionaire today. Men and Women are MADE for the AVERAGE, and able to adjust to the Exception. sacrifice some of your freedom (not a ridiculous amount), give them access to I still think we shouldnt use the numbers as judgement because what happens to the woman who does not have a conflicting view with that man on relationships, yet she does have high numbers. Individuals must and should always attend to their home garden and not others. You can develop a dont care attitude. But nonetheless your human bro. At this point a # seems like the least of my worries. Do not lie, but do not get detailed. Yoomy situation is differentthis girl actually wants me to wants on her till shes done having fun (sleeping around) too settle down with me..i thing thats disgustingand its not worth it. your such a b.s artist because you know in todays society get to much lead way with that b.s. If you're honest more than likely you wouldn't. I dated a woman most wouldn't consider a beauty, but she was smart and funny and great in bed. If they have, you dont know the type of past this woman has had such as entering prostitution when she was young for various reasons, seeking validation from men through sex at a young age (especially if shes been sexually abused or has father issues) or because she has no problem with satisfying her sexual needs which we do have. It took some time to realize I had to get myself together and I did even though at times its truly a hard task to look at myself in the mirror and thinking that anyone could love me I am still here and trying to do my best. Her husband probly slept with 100 plus too. Men like to know what theyre investing in is rare. Finally, above all else RESPECT HER!!! Men do not. Shadow Hunter-March 5, 2022. But the same thing goes for men they should save their selves for the ONE, because u could be tainting another mans bloodline think about how you would feel to have another mans DNA in your children knowing they are not pure of you and you alone. I would love to talk about this with someone that is exp it as well. Why must women be held to an higher standard than men? My opinion on how many people is too many: Since people I completely understand where you are coming from Jeraldel and I assure you I will address these issues moving forward. I mean, come on, theres more to life than sex, right? I haven't really said anything about this stuff to her and have been avoiding it like the fucking plague cause I don't want this toxicity to leak out. What should matter is if she is STD free. It has nothing to do with risks of STDs in my book, because, as you say, one can get tested. although Ive had my fair share partners i dont like a woman who has. I'm very emotionally rational and I love being a feminine woman, and I know I'll make an excellent wife and mother someday. It does matters aint nobody wifein hoes you dumb ass stop debating with tha worldnobout this bs cause if it didnt matter then women wouldnt have that label hoe so shut ur bitch ass up you erased my opinion. Not every girl will be good for you, but if you can get the one that's right for you, your marriage life is going to be great. downward but thats not a bad thing. But then you know everything. I completely understand where you are coming from and I do believe in discussing a persons past. Why cant we they have their cake and eat it too? The girl you date shows her cleavage all the time. Men have just as much of a right to choose as women do. She loves you, and regardless of how anybody else wants to view her, it only matters how you view her. 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